Wednesday, September 12, 2012

The Rose Motel Story

My credit union coaching partner and I would like you to meet someone. Yesterday we had the
privilege (and indeed honour) of visiting Dashdulam the owner of the The Caphau Motel (Caphau means Rose in Mongolian).


She is an incredibly inspiring woman with a perpetual smile who with the assistance of her credit union, aptly named the Good Life SCC, has transformed her life into a decent and dignified "good life". One that is immensly better than she would otherwise have had she told us. She did so in the face of great financial and physical adversity. We were only able to spend about 30 minutes or so with her but in that short time we learned about a wonderful story that really exemplifies the reason we coaches travel thousands of miles to help credit unions in developing countries like Mongolia.

When Dashdulam was 5 years old she became afflicted with polio. Life was obviously very difficult for her. We didn't get much in the way of details about her upbringing and her life as a growing child, teenager and adult this country. But its pretty safe to say that she's faced many challenges and barriers in her life along the way. She was able to attend primary and secondary school and she had a keen interest in becoming an accountant. She did not pursue her dream she explained to us because employers would not hire someone with the physical disabilities she possessed. She moves around with the use of crutches. It appeared she could not put much weight on her legs and dragged her feet for the most part. She told us that her life changed 9 years ago when she saw an ad in the local newspaper about a credit cooperative that was just opening up, where people like her, people who could not even dream of doing business with a bank could have access to financial services like savings and business loans. Dashdulam owns a very modest home on the outskirts of Ulaanbatar. We did not find out how she came to own the house but I assume it was handed down to her by her parents or other family. She decided to take control of her life and start a business. A home based business would be best of course considering her physical challenges. This would allow her to work and earn an steady income without leaving home. With loans from Good Life she converted her home into a 4 room motel. With a noticeabley excited  look in her eyes and a strong sense of pride, she readily approved our request to take video and shoot pictures of her place. I can't over emphasize the word pride. She was so happy about what she'd accomplished so far in her life and was eager to have these strangers from Canada visit her place.


 She said she had princlples about how she ran her business. She wanted us to know that although her motel is not luxurious , you will always find it very clean. She gestured towards the floors and reception area for us to see for ourselves. She also reached behind her while standing by the desk and popped opened the doors to a large cupboard that held dozens of neatly pressed and folded bed sheets and pillow cases. She also shared another business principle with us. One that took this heart warming story over the top for both my coaching partner Heather and I. One which produced a very humbling moment for both us as we listened to our translator. She declared to us that she only hires two types of staff members to help her at the motel. She hires seniors and people with disabilities. What I understood was that Dashdulams believes seniors and people with disabilities are among the most marginalized people in Mongolia. She said shes thankful for what she has and this is her way of giving back for the opportunity she had to make a better life for herself. In the case of people with disabilities of course she speaks from experience. Unbelievable. I live in a great country and I have more in my life that you can imagaine but this lady is richer than I will ever be. Thank you for allowing us into your home and sharing your story with us Dashdulam.




4 comments:

  1. What a great story. Now we'll have somewhere to stay if we ever go back.
    M

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  2. It is amazing how a woman can rise up and succeed with all the challenges she encountered. The young people of today need to take a page from her book. One line from her book would be an improvement. Great story Charlie. No doubt many more to come. Karen

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  3. What an amazing women! You can tell in the pictures the pride in her face, I am not going to complain about work anymore, sometimes we forget how lucky we are living in Canada!
    Rose

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  4. Great story Charlie, certainly puts things into perspective.

    Stone

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